Thank you for all your comments.
At the moment I kind of have my eye on xsi student copy £170 for perement lisence. Also they say there are no limitations to that product comared with that of the normal advanced version of xsi. i.e. no watermarks, dodgy file formats etc.
I am kind of worried that with autodesk taking over softimage that this seemingly great offer will be removed before I get it because really I have no need to buy any 3D app for at least 3 months (trial of 3D max, maya and xsi 1 month each)
I found a good comparitive review for all the apps at:
TDT3D - 3D softwares comparisons table
which seemed to be quite impartial. Interestingly it rated 3D max biggest problem as the price :S
Also I think xsi seems to be a nice comprisms between Macca and Sandmannija's comments.
I myself am about to qualify as an engineer and totally agree with macca's comments about application training in engineering not really mattering. But I have no knowlage of the 3D industy. As such xsi seems to be the application used alot in next gen games with also some exposure in films as well.
Also I like the interface and ice
Finally I have been thinking about my question regarding the use of 3D-palaces 3D-max tutorials in other applications and have decided that after doing all the free tutorials on xsi here that the commercial sets will be very helpfull in understanding work flow and 3D thinking.
So again thank you for all your comments and keep them coming.
Regards
Nighteyes
p.s. I intend to use theses 3D apps for none engineering uses such as making cool movies and hopefully in the end switching jobs....